If you have a toddler running around your house, you know those two words that every parent dreads: potty training! But it doesn't have to be a nightmare. With a little preparation, potty training could be an almost smooth process.

Here are a few tips we gathered from people who have been there and made it back alive.

before potty training

Before starting:

  • Observe to see if your kids are showing any interest in potty training. Timing equals a big part of the battle. Are they ready?
  • If you plan to train within a certain time frame, you need to really commit. Cancel outside plans and stay home for the weekend.
  • Pick up a couple potty books to help your little one understand the process and how cool it is to go on the potty.
  • Let them pick out their big kid undies. A favorite character could make all the difference. 'Don't let (fill in the blank) get wet!
  • Explain the potty plan to them the night before so they aren't completely shocked.
  • Stock up on all the essentials and make a basket. Wipes, paper towels, books to entertain, et.
  • Who wants to sit in a boring bathroom waiting for so long? Set up a whole potty station that looks like a fort or a castle or at least make it your space more interesting then just tile.

during potty training

During Potty Training:

  • Keep your child as little clothed as possible. Summer is prime potty training season. The less time it takes to remove clothing, the less likely you will be to have an accident on your hands.
  • Have them drink a lot. Use their favorite juice and don't limit it for these days.
  • Set a reminder timer. Every hour, half hour, 15 minutes- See how it works and adjust if necessary.
  • Keep score. Use a sticker chart as motivation.
  • Don't be afraid of using things that are normally limited as rewards (like chocolate.) They won't be potty training forever.
  • If an accident happens, stay calm. Let them help clean up.
  • If there is a success, celebrate! Make up a special song and dance. Clap and cheer loudly! Don't skimp on the praise.
  • For boys, think about using toilet targets to help improve their aim. Sinking Cherrio's work just as well.

after potty training

After they've got the hang of it:

  • Don't be afraid to go out and test your toddlers new skills. Just keep it short to begin with and know where a toilet is located.
  • Keep a traveling potty kit with you with items like seat liners and wipes.
  • Have a puppy pee pad under their bum in case accidents occur.
  • Regressions do happen. Take it in stride and keep going.
  • Keep diapers for night time. That's probably a lesson for a different day.
  • Celebrate for yourself! You made it through!